PEOPLE.
MY EMAIL HAS TRULY FLOODED BY YOUSE COMMENTS :P
Well ya, eventhough I said I will retire myself from blogging but this will be the last post before I go off! There's already a LOT of comments/questions on my previous post (8th Nov) XD So ya, please stick with asking questions over there, it'll be so much easy to handle and answer them.
CLICK ME TO ASK QUESTION/S
AND also seriously, those seedy anons? Don't youse have better things to do??
Also. Wow. seriously. Before I checked, there's around 80 or so comments, nek minek, is like 130 something O.O This has gone viral, actually more viral than I originally thought it would be. It's gonna be a while until I answer all of them. Having a feeling more questions will be coming in... so ya, please be patient! :P
Moreover....
And also for those haters that messaged me privately, for examples, "I don't think you're very good at advice/gtfo/delete your blog/go die" and all that shitzza. I never said I was good at it. If anything, I don’t even think I should even call this “advice.” It’s just my opinion :) People come to ask for my OPINION. I don’t expect people to go “OMG, VELENE IS SO RIGHT. I'm so going to listen to her.” I’m just giving them my perspective of what i would do in their situation or/and simply just my intake of what I think when I read their problems.
And I will answer all the questions tonight, so fire all if you have any, as I will start my retirement of blogging and answering questions, starting tomorrow. And I will get back answering questions when exams are done :)
xPeacex
Love,
Velene xoxo
MY EMAIL HAS TRULY FLOODED BY YOUSE COMMENTS :P
Well ya, eventhough I said I will retire myself from blogging but this will be the last post before I go off! There's already a LOT of comments/questions on my previous post (8th Nov) XD So ya, please stick with asking questions over there, it'll be so much easy to handle and answer them.
CLICK ME TO ASK QUESTION/S
AND also seriously, those seedy anons? Don't youse have better things to do??
Also. Wow. seriously. Before I checked, there's around 80 or so comments, nek minek, is like 130 something O.O This has gone viral, actually more viral than I originally thought it would be. It's gonna be a while until I answer all of them. Having a feeling more questions will be coming in... so ya, please be patient! :P
Moreover....
And also for those haters that messaged me privately, for examples, "I don't think you're very good at advice/gtfo/delete your blog/go die" and all that shitzza. I never said I was good at it. If anything, I don’t even think I should even call this “advice.” It’s just my opinion :) People come to ask for my OPINION. I don’t expect people to go “OMG, VELENE IS SO RIGHT. I'm so going to listen to her.” I’m just giving them my perspective of what i would do in their situation or/and simply just my intake of what I think when I read their problems.
And I will answer all the questions tonight, so fire all if you have any, as I will start my retirement of blogging and answering questions, starting tomorrow. And I will get back answering questions when exams are done :)
xPeacex
Love,
Velene xoxo
there are like 225 comments over in the other end..... can i post my question here?
ReplyDeleteso you have a boyfriend? o:
Yeah :)
Deletehow many siblings, name and age? :)
ReplyDeleteLOL. That’s tad stalkerish. 1 sibling – a younger brother.
Deletei like two guys what do i do? one likes me back but the other is just really good friend but i liked the really good friend longer
ReplyDeletetrust me. you like one of them more - whether it’s just a little bit more. When you figure out who he is, go for that guy regardless of how you think he thinks of you.
DeleteDo you know what? I'm 19 too, and I have never dated a man. Is it ridiculous? I'm so scared that no one wants to marry me.
ReplyDeleteIt is definitely not ridiculous. It’s fine. It just simply means you haven’t found the right guy yet or you’re just too caught up with other things in your life to notice other guys. I’m sure you will eventually find someone who’s going to cherish you. Don’t think that just because you’re 19 and you haven’t dated means you’re not going to ever. That’s not true. And you better believe it. Cos I believed that too haha :’) Be in a relationship when your ready for it.
DeleteOne of my friends asked this guy what they thought of me. He said that I was ugly and mean. Right in front of my face. That seriously killed my esteem. Of course I acted like it didn't do anything. But inside I wanted to go cry and yell in his face. He wasn't even joking... I'm probably going to be forever alone.
ReplyDeleteYou know what? Screw it. And screw him. His opinion shouldn’t mean jack shit to you. Why? Because for someone to call someone else ugly and mean is just as ugly and mean. You’re not ugly. And you’re not mean. He is. He’s not worthy of your time and thought. As hard as it is, forget what he said. I’ve come across plenty of people who said i was ugly right in my face and you know what i did? I went home and cried. but then i realised why i was crying. If i just believe in myself that i am beautiful just anybody else, a little insult/comment from someone shouldn’t matter. Because I’ve learnt that if someone is to criticize someone else’s looks, their appearance themselves is not any prettier.
DeleteHai! I need some advice :/ My friend is really unconfident about himself and he tells me about it, and I really don't know how to respond or what advice to give him. It hurts to see him like this. What can I do to help him? :/
ReplyDeleteThe slightest things can easily help boost someone’s self-esteem/confidence up. You can compliment him on how he looks, maybe when you’re just hanging out, tell him he looks good but don’t go out of your way to make it sound like you’re trying too hard. Everyone is unique in their own way and no one is truly “perfect”. Tell him that and soon enough, he’ll have confidence.
Deleteim going out with this girl that i love but there is also another girl that i like, what do i do, its killing me
ReplyDeleteThe girl you say you “love.” I doubt you actually sincerely love her. You know why? Because if you truly “loved” her, no other girl would be in your mind. You wouldn’t like any other girl at all besides her. Don’t lie to yourself. To be honest, I don’t think you deserve any of them. It’s true. If you’re dating a girl but you like someone else, can you imagine how she’s going to feel when she finds out? Don’t break girls heart. You either break up with her now because you know you like the other girl more or you just move on from both. Don’t hold onto someone and like someone else. That’s extremely low.
DeleteSOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO low.
Deletelife would be easier if i was pretty..
ReplyDeleteyou already are. it’s not what you look like that determines whether your life is “shit” or not. it’s how you live it.
Delete^that is so true!
DeleteHave you ever fought with a good friend of yours? My friend is mad at me because of my mistake and saying sorry is not working.
ReplyDeleteof course :) to me, its completely normal to have occasional fights with your friends. I guess you should just give her/his time. Give her/his time to forgive you. It’s either make or break. If you have done everything you can to show them that you’re genuinely sorry and is pleading for forgiveness, then it’s only up to her to find it in her heart to forgive you.
Deletehi, uhm, i was wondering what to do when you've become, "strangers again" with that one person..? how do you get over him.. ?
ReplyDeleteUm..... I would say, try your very best to move on. How? Distract yourself. Talk to new people, socialise with friends, recontact old ones etc.
Deletewhat would you do if you saw scars on your friend's arm from self infliction?
ReplyDeleteYou’d immediately ask them why there is. Make them feel like they can trust you into telling you how they truly feel. Seek help. Straight away.
DeleteI don't think I'll ever be good enough, no matter how many cons of mine I change, I don't think I'll ever be good enough
ReplyDeleteHave faith in yourself. Because as far as i know, you’ll always be good enough if you believe that you are. It’s just a matter of self confidence. I really do think that if you have a strong mindset, you can overcome any obstacles and challenges and you can be whatever the hell you want to be.
Deletehey so theres this guy that used to really like me last year. I didnt really know him so everytime he asked me out I said no and ignored him. Now he's moved on and has a huge crush on another girl. The problem is I kinda like him now and the girl he has a crush on is my best friend and all she talks about is him and I'm kinda jealous. We're closer now than before but we still don't talk to each other alot.
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DeleteI’m sorry to say but if i was you, I’d back out. You lost your chance of being with him. And it’s not your fault. But then, it’s way too late. Because firstly, he likes someone else. And that someone else is your best friend. Not only can you end up hurting yourself, you will probably end up hurting your friend too. And you’re better off forgetting him and trying your best to just be happy for him than ruining your friendship, right?
that sounds true.... thankyou for your time in answering my help! :) x
Deleteim a guy and the girl i like is a year older. derp to me. im blank.
ReplyDeleteWhat’s wrong with the age? Nothing. If you like her, then you like her. Don’t let age stop you from liking someone. Because that’s stupid. Especially when she is just a year older.
Deletek. cool. thanks a lot!
DeleteDid anyone tell you you're weird before? Some of my friends say I'm weird :/
ReplyDeleteYeah, LOLOLOLOLOL don’t worry! weird is coooooool :)
DeleteHI! I was just wondering , is it wrong to like a person 3 years older than you? & also, if it is wrong to like someone 3 years younger ? Is that what you would consider ''normal'' ? Because I have a friend who likes this guy who's 15 and she's only 12. What do you think about this? :)
ReplyDeleteAge doesn’t matter if it’s only a few years apart. But if your friend is 12 and the guy she likes is 15, then i personally think that’s okay. But the thing is, is she mature enough? I mean, 12 is quite young and 15 is half way through teen years. So when you think of it that way, the age difference does somewhat matter. But at the end of the day, if she likes him and he eventually likes her then that’s great! Age shouldn’t stop two people from falling.
Deleteok so there's this guy.. i started liking him about last year and he knows that i like him and now i feel really awkward because i thought he only found out recently but he knew since the beginning. and i was really comfortable around him but now i feel awkward to talk to him.. idk why. he asked me too why so awkward now? i just replied im not. D: please help me!
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DeleteWell you shouldn’t feel awkward at all. Because he has treated you just the same when he knew about it. So don’t be :) Think about it - it would be understandable to feel awkward if he just found out recently and started acting all weird around you. But he hasn’t. He knew from the very start and he hasn’t changed the way he acts around you. So you should feel thankful and lucky :)
so i like this one guy, and we've been talking for a long long time, (5 years) he's asked me out before, but i was like 13, and didnt feel like i was ready. now that i feel like im ready, he's playing hard to get and flirts with a lot of girls. he's says he's only being friendly, but when i see those girls posting things on his facebook, it just kills me inside, >< what should i do? or say?
ReplyDeleteWow can i just say that 5 years is a really long time and that is quite amazing? :O but anyhow, does it feel like he treats you right though? That he likes you? Wants to be with you? etc. Because if he’s just talking to you like any other girl, then you’re just part of all the other girls he “flirts” to, you know? Maybe you’ve lost his chance and now you’re just a friend to him. Unless you guys talk like you guys are seeing each other. If you guys are, then i suggest you tell him that you’re uncomfortable with him talking to other girls like that. You’re better off sounding like a whiney girlfriend than just sit there quietly and let him take advantage of you.
Deletei get jealous when my boyfriend talks about his ex's. i just feel uncomfortable when he tells me. like what is in the past is in the past why can't he just drop it? then i get mad at him and we kinda just ignore each other. :/
ReplyDeleteYou just got to trust him. Whatever he’s talking ABOUT his ex shouldn’t make you angry.. although he shouldn’t go talking about her when he knows you’ll get jealous and angry. Nevertheless, just accept it. He’s yours now and that’s what matters.
Deleteshould i hide my school report?
ReplyDeleteWell, I don’t know HAHAHA it’s up to you :) back in the days when I know that if my report was bad, I’d hide it. But then my parents always manage to remember and ask me for it -.-
DeleteI've grown so used to people complimenting me randomly, that when I get insults it cuts me really, really deep. I think I worry too much about everyone's opinions, and I try to change myself so people will like me. Is that bad?
ReplyDeleteIn a way, it’s not bad. But then majorly, it’s quite unhealthy for you. You should know that you get more compliments than insults so a few insults at times shouldn’t hurt you at all. They’re just meaningless put downs trying to upset you. So fight against it and think positively. As for trying to change yourself for other peope, yes that’s bad. Just be you. And I know how cliché that is, it’s really true. Be whoever you want to be - not how others want you. Because eventually, even if people around you love you, you will not love yourself. And that will become a downhill in the near future.
DeleteI hate my thighs too. I swear I wish I could just do liposuction or something and make them smaller. :(
ReplyDeleteI KNOW RIGHT?!? ugh :( #firstworldproblemshaha*
Deleteomg yes i fucking need advice, my boyfriend and i love each other so much but im leaving to darwin and im in sydney right now. we don't know whether to stay together (long distance relationship) because honestly i probably wouldn't move back to sydney.. i'd adapt to living in darwin.. or should we just break up now.. it might be for the better.. please, i really love him, i honestly do mean to say that he is everything.
ReplyDeleteawwww.....
DeleteIf you love him and he loves you and you feel like nothing can separate you guys apart - even distance, then don’t let him go :) If you feel like you’re capable of keeping this relationship strong even if you guys are miles away and possibly not see each others until a very long time, then don’t break up with him. Long distant relationships do work. It’s just a matter of whether you’re committed and strong-willed enough. But then again, even if you do feel like he’s your everything right at this very moment, things can and will change when you move. Your bond may slowly drift apart or maybe your feelings just change completely. I really don’t know. Neither do you or him. I guess it’s just a matter f following your heart and then accepting whatever comes after. Stay with him and if things start going downhill when you move, well then yeah. Then it’s done. But for now, don’t let him go if you still love him. It will just break your heart plus, you never know, long distant relationship may work for you. If your love for each other is that strong, absolutely nothing can go in the way.
hey velenee, well okay today i saw this video where it said 'tell the person you love, you love them before its too late' and now i'm paranoid about whether i should tell him i love him or not.. because like we're really close, almost best friends and if i tell him , it might make everything awkward and all . he tried to cheer me up and he bought me a necklace so i'm not sure Dx . help please ?
ReplyDeleteWell is there a possible chance that he might like you back? Is there signs? Like flirting, treating you differently to other girls, possibly hinting here and there that he likes you? If yes, then sure, go for it! Tell him. Otherwise, if you’re certain that he treats you as a friend only then I wouldn’t do it. Because you’re better off not being together with him than lose the friendship completely, you know?
Deletehow do you cope with bad exam results?
ReplyDeleteAccept it and move on. Take it as a valuable lesson in which you will remember for future reference. If it’s bad, then you will motivate yourself in improving for next time. :)
Deletehow do i keep my face from having red marks and pimples :( ive tried a lot of ways to stop the oil and everything but it doesnt seem to want to leave D:
ReplyDeletewash your face nearly everynight and eat healthy. Your diet does impact the way your skin looks so try and drink plenty of water, eat plenty of fruits and vegetables etc :)
DeleteDo you know what Velene? I LOVE YOUR ADVICES. You've helped me get back with my (guy) best friend and now we're happy. Even though there's still another girl in the picture we're happy as best friend. Thankyou. Keep the good advice up beautiful <3
ReplyDeleteAwww! I’m so glad everything turned out great for you :D All the best lovely! <333
Deleteim so sick of being ugly, being fat, im so sick of all this everyones pretty bullshit because everyone at school, everyone i know, people on the street are so blinded by looks are everything and im getting nowhere. i want to be comfortable with my body but i cant. i want to be comfortable with who i am, but i cant. what the fuck
ReplyDeleteWhat don’t you get? Everyone really is amazinggg. In order for other people to love you for who you are, you need to love yourself first. How can other people love you if you are so negative with the way you look and so forth? You’ve got nothing to be ashamed of. You’ve got nothing to feel insecure about. Everyone got flaws. Everyone got imperfections. But that’s what makes us all unique. Don’t be afraid to be confident in who you are regardless of how “ugly” you think you are. Because you’re not. And you will eventually see that.
Deleteso this guy likes me and he gets mad whenever i talk to a guy or talk to him about a guy. -sigh-
ReplyDeleteDo you like him? If you do, then you should either explain to him that nothing is going to change your feelings about him or to simply not talk about other guys to him. Guys can be very sensitive too, so don’t try and push his buttons, yeah? :) But I think it’s best if you just tell him straight up that he’s just going to have to deal with it because it’s impossible not to talk to other people and there’s nothing exactly wrong to share him stuff about other guys, you know? :P
Deletehow do you get your hair naturally straight ? O.o
ReplyDeleteit’s not really that straight, HAHA but I think I was just born like that?
Deletemy boyfriend broke up with me for my best friend. i still really love him though. what can i do?
ReplyDeleteHow can you love someone who would so such thing? Forget it. Fuck it. Fuck him. Try your best to ignore everything that relates to him and you will eventually realise that there’s no point in liking someone who would do something like that to you.
DeleteGonna post here eventhough here isn't tumblr!
ReplyDeleteYOU'RE SO SWEET AND YOU'RE THE REASON why someone like me who doesn't have a tumblr visit your blog every time :)
aw really?! shanks :') haha..
Deletedo you answer privately?
ReplyDeleteof course! I always do :)
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